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Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

12.06.2025 02:38

Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

It's one of the reason why pickup trainings suck.

That's not an interview for a stand-up artist.

If she is not creative in her messages, no guy would care either.

Do you think some men have sex with prostitutes because they're too afraid to talk to women? Money does the talking for them.

Because it's a standard phrase to start communication.

Of course, farther on when you start chatting moreover dating being smart and creative will really impress, but only as a SUPPLEMENT to attractive look.

People choose a partner by sexual attractiveness in the first place.

Why don't people like Nickelback?

No country for ugly people…

BTW all the girls start their messages with a similar simple greeting.

If a hot girl pays attention to me it doesn't really matter what she says. Her attention is enough.

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